一起做公益, 一起陪天使孩子運動就在恩美協會－理財蘇珊姐

我今天帶孩子們一起出來做公益，這個活動是由一位外國媽媽因為她女兒得了罕見疾病叫做『貓哭症』，所以她用她女兒的名字成立了這個協會，這個協會就叫做『恩美協會』鼓勵家中有天使孩童的父母都能把孩子帶出來運動。

I brought my children to do volunteer work last Saturday. There was a westerner who established this Anmei organization, since her daughter has a rare disease called chromosome 5p deletion syndrome. She wants to encourage the parents who have children with rare diseases to bring their children out to do exercise.

在這個運動會，總共會有5項目，每位志工都必須要陪一位天使孩童，完成所有的運動項目，因為這些孩子都是比較特別的孩子，不太可能會乖乖的完成所有的項目，要學會耐心的陪伴孩子。

There is a total of five items in this sports game. All of the volunteers need to accompany one special needs child to take part in this five sports game. They are all special needs children, so they will not finish all of the activities. The volunteers need to be patient with them.

我才短短的陪伴孩子約2個小時，但那些父母卻是要陪伴他們的孩子每天24個小時，沒有辦法休息的日子，那種辛苦和累是沒有人可以體會的，我陪伴的孩子是一位自閉兒，爸爸跟我說他到2歲才發現孩子不能講話，怪怪的，所以他帶去醫院才知道他的孩子是自閉症。

I only spent about two hours with those children, but those parents will never get any rest because they need to spend 24 hours with them. I believe this is very tiring responsibility, and no one can really understand how they feel. I look after an autistic child. His father told me his child still can’t talk, although he is already two years old. He felt strange, so he took him to the hospital for a check up, and then the doctor told him his child is autistic.

爸爸說他花了很多錢和時間在陪他的孩子，我是真的能感同身受，聽到爸爸說很無奈遇到了也沒有辦法，我就開始在想如果是我自己，遇到了這樣的孩子，我有辦法接受嗎？

This father told me he spends too much time and money on his children. I can totally understand how this father feels. He told me he still has to face this problem, because his children already have this kind of disease. I began thinking about if I were that parent, how would I feel? Could I accept it?

我真的已經很幸福了，我只要想他們養的孩子，是一輩子都無法獨立的，那我又何必太要求，太逼孩子的功課，品德不才是孩子最重要的功課嗎？當今很多正常的孩子變成啃老族，不就是品德出問題嗎？但我們父母卻在孩子品德養成，最重要的時刻，只在乎他們的成績，卻沒教孩子品德，這是很可惜的不是嗎？

I am a really very lucky person. I once thought these children will never become independent. Why I should push my own children too much about their grades? I think learning morality is most important matter for children, and not just their school grades. There are so many children who become lazy. Is’t it because of the morality problem? Parents should educate their children about having proper morals during their development, but most of parents choose only focus on children’s school performances. Isn't it a pity to not educate children about their moral considerations?

我帶我孩子一起來做公益，因為我希望我的孩子能夠學會給予，重要的是感恩和謙卑，如果一個孩子養大了只知道要去賺大錢，目的只是為了自己，這是很可惜的，而且就算他賺了很多錢，這孩子也是不會快樂的，因為永遠不會知足，對嗎？

I brought my children to do volunteer work. I hope they can learn to be generous. The most important matter is for our kids to need to learn how to be grateful and humble. If this kids only know how to make money for themselves, I believe they will never be happy because they will never feel satisfaction about what they have.

哥哥很可愛在跳遠 My older son was jumping very far.: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/4LzHfCKy7e4