45 Life lessons From a 90 years old. 一位90歲老人的45堂人生課－理財蘇珊姐

內容從 RedFrost Motiviation的影片翻譯

Life isn’t fair but it’s still good. 人生雖不公平但他還是好的
When in doubt, just take next small step. 當你在懷疑時，只要走一小步
Life is too short to waste time to hating anyone. 人生短到別讓費時間去恨任何人
Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 別太認真，沒人這樣做。
Pay off your credit cards every month. 每個月付清你的信用卡。
You don’t have to win every arguments. Agree to disagree. 你不需要贏得每一次的辯論。同意別人的不同意。
Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone. 跟別人一起哭。這比自己哭還有療育。
Save for retirement, starting with your first payslip. 從你的第一筆薪水開始存你的退休金。
When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 當巧克力來時，抗拒是沒有用的。
Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present. 跟你的過去和平相處，這樣才不會搞砸你的現在。
It’s ok to let your children see you cry. 讓你的孩子看到你哭，是沒有關係的。
Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 別將你的人生和別人比較，你根本不知道他們全部的旅程是怎樣過的。
If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it. 如果關係是有秘密的，那你根本不應該參與其中。
Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying. 不管你是否遇到任何不好的環境和情況，立刻採取行動。
You can get through anything if you stay put in today. 持續專注在您做的行動方面。
A writer writes. If you want to be a writer. Write. 作家就是一直寫，如果你想當作家就是一直寫。
It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 活在當下，不要活在過去。
When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
Burn the candles; use the nice sheets; wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
Overprepare, then go with the flow.
Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
The most important sex organ is the brain. 最重要的性器官是你的頭腦。
No one is in charge of your happiness except you. 沒有人可以控制你的幸福，除了你自己以外。
Frame every so-called disaster with these words; In five years,will this matter.
Forgive everyone everything. 原諒每個人及每件事。
What other people think of you is none of your business. 別人怎麼認為你，那都跟你沒有關係。
Time heals almost everything. time , time. 時間可以醫治幾乎每一件事情。
However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 然而好或不好的情況，它都會改變。
Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch. 當你生病時，你的工作不會照顧你，但你的朋友會，所以要保持聯絡。
Believe in mircles. 相信奇蹟
Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger. 克服眼前的困境，以便能處理未來的問題。
Growing old beats the alternative – dying young. 盡全力活出你的人生
Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable. 你的孩子只有一次童年，讓它變成是可以留念的。
Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 每天都出去，因為奇蹟在每個地方。
If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else, we’d grab ours back. 我們的情況不會比別人糟
Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now. 正向的行動，且不要活在過去
Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful, or joyful. 拿掉所有沒有用的、不漂亮的及不快樂的事。
All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. 最後跟你有關的都是愛你的人。
Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 忌妒是浪費時間，你已經擁有你所需要的了。
The best is yet to come. 最好的還沒到來。
No matter how you feel, get up , dress up , and show up. 不關你覺得如何，起床、打扮、出現。
Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. 深呼吸一下，他會降下你的心情。
If you don’t ask, you don’t get. 如果你沒有問，你就得不到。
Yied. 讓步。
Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift. 人生不是那麼容易，但你還是要感激你所擁有的。